Last friday i received an article talking about SiS's agenda for 2007. Fighting poligamy on the ticket of womens' rights, human rights, equality, etc. So, the article is talking about this people being educated abroad, exposed to western cultures and stuff, thus carrying those values to fight for feminisme which is against what is already in Al-Quran.
Simply put, are they trying to say that what Allah said is not good for them, for the people, for the women ? SiS's points among others are family institution failed because of poligamy, childrens left unattended or abused or not taken care of, social problems (teenagers) because of failure in family institution as the father married more than one. There are so many other reasons why those things happen and there are also many cases where big family (poligamy) have good, solid and successful childrens..living in harmony some more.
I'm not trying to discuss this in great details as i need to run for meeting now. But, what am thinking to do is to setup an NGO for poligamist. Membership open for poligamist and poligamist-wanna-be. Success stories will be published, tips and guidance from successful poligamist to poligamist-wanna-be to ensure a strong, solid and good family institution uphold despite being poligamist. Nice or not ? :D
signing off...
2 comments:
Watch Berbagi Suami. Polygamy bukan soal keberanian. Mahupun kemampuan. Mahupun suami atau isteri. Kasih sayang, tanggungjawab kepada anak2 itu yg pentingnya. Altho, Berbagi suami showed different scenery, but, what is showed was how much the children affected. Tanya la anak mana yang tidak affected, ada tak yg +vely affected?
note taken..nanti saya carik cite tu. more research should be done on the statistics as reports showed are one-sided at the moment.
report(s) on polygamist and their childrens dated since 1950s/60s should be produced. why the older folks can do it and their children can still become good man, leaders, etc and why not now ?
there must be something that the old folks knows that we don't (meaning we should seek for it !!!) but whatever decision a man make, he makes the decision. and wise guy should take into consideration about the affect to the children and how to ensure they're not -vely affected, ensure love are still there or more, and above all..trying to be fair to all.
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