ONCE...hurt

Hurt only happens when we love someone.  It hurts to love...and even more when we hurt the person that we love.  So many times it happen...hurting the ones that we love the most. Mostly unintentionally.

Some cases allow us to understand the other party better.  As we hurt, as they hurt, we know the limits and boundaries...we know and understand the other party better, the relationship and love would become much more meaningful.  But, there are cases also where it becomes a disaster.  Unrecoverable..no turning back..catastrophe..disappointment..frustration..unacceptable.

Why do we hurt  ?  Is it because we have expectations and the expectations was not shared with the other party or the expectations was not met at all ?  Or because we haven't know the other party well just yet ? 

Then, how do we prevent from hurting people that we love that brings to disaster ?  Was it much easier not to love anybody ?  Or perhaps just a few or only One ?  

...just a food for thoughts...